Being in sync with someone else’s sexual needs and desires can be tough, in this episode of Sex School we cover how to navigate mismatched libidos. Lina Bembe and Robin Astera discuss how to flip the script and handle different libidos. Many of us have expectations of a “healthy libido”, but Robin explains that what we may perceive as “healthy” or “normal” is built off of some harmful ideas. Lina and Robin even tough on the mental health aspect of it all and providing some tips and tricks on how to communicate with someone how you are feeling and what you may or may not be up for doing that day. Libidos are more than just a “drive”, but an opportunity for us to hear our partner out or even put more energy into turning our partners on without making them feel pressured.

Later Robin and Lina take their time in some sexploration, playing with toys, communication and feet! This episode is for anyone looking for the skills to help improve and better their sex and sexual communication, while also seeking new and fresh ideas on how to play. Not only does this episode discuss libidos in a conscious manner, but even the unconscious expectations about someone’s libido we may pick up because of what we are taught in our society. The Libido Episode will have you rethinking all you thought you knew about sex.

Directed by Poppy Sanchez
Original Idea: Sex School
Co-Created with Robin Astera & Lina Bembe