Fire in the Valley – Female Genital Massage offers step-by-step instruction in pleasuring a woman. You will learn thirty delightful massage strokes for the vulva, with a special emphasis on erectile tissue: vagina, clitoris, vestibular bulbs, legs of the clitoris, urethral sponge, and the oft forgotten perineal sponge. Individuals get skillful at touching by practicing. […]

The walls of the vagina are rich with unexplored pleasure zones. Each woman has her own landscape of sensitive nerve endings. Let your fingers wake up her special treasure map. While receiving internal touch, Jaiya models intimate communication—with her hands and with her words. Ever the pleasure activist, Jaiya also demonstrates how to massage the […]

Give your partner a full body massage before focusing on her vulva. Once you both are ready, Jaiya offers an astonishingly beautiful teaching, showing ways to begin to touch the vulva— with breathing, eye gazing, quiet pressure, patting, drumming, tapping, cupping, and vibrating. Three loving couples show how to build sexual trust with their hands […]

For fifty years, Betty Dodson taught and coached women about orgasms and masturbation. In this clip we meet Carol, a 26-year-old medical student, who is not sure where her clitoris resides. Dr. Dodson gives Carol one of her famous vulva anatomy lessons and then shows her several simple ways she can begin pleasuring herself. Betty […]

Sex coach Betty Dodson PhD invented the term “sex coaching.” Sweet Caryn comes to Betty Dodson, the orgasm doctor, with a situation: “I don’t know how to use my fingers or my hands to get myself off. And I freeze up when my boyfriend touches me. I wish I knew how to incorporate masturbating into […]

Massaging the clitoris makes it bigger, firmer, and more erect. Annie Sprinkle’s advice is to start with a feather light touch. Extreme camera close-ups allow us to see David’s fingers expertly varying pressure, movement, and rhythm on Rachel’s clitoral hood and surrounding tissues. Letta shows us the classic finger circle stroke on her own clitoris. […]

Letta Neely begins with slow and easy touching, caressing her whole body. As her session evolves, she focuses more on arousal and excitement. “Learn your body,” she chants. Her message to all of us is “Liberate yourself.” For poet Letta Neely, liberation comes from knowing and validating herself in her solo erotic practice. “Masturbation keeps […]

Jaiya guides you in doubling her pleasure. After deeply relaxing the vagina and anal sphincters with massage, insert one finger in her anus and two fingers in her vagina, touching both her G-spot and her A-spot, located on the deepest part of the urethral sponge. Then pleasure her clitoris with your thumb. You are now […]

Erotically-gifted Elizabeth brings herself to several explosive orgasmic ejaculations. Her message to all women is to let go and embody your pleasure. This practice involves a placement of attention on the urethral sponge, coupled with stimulation and pressure from a finger or toy. This can be a new experience for many women. At the beginning […]